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No Results In Life? You Need A New Plan!

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By Dwight Bain, LMHC - Are you on track with your life and business? If not, why not?   - Do you have a master life plan?   - Do you have a trusted coach to guide you through the process?   College sports tracks winners and losers. Football bowl games and basketball sweet 16 tournament's are all about results, not excuses. Many people pay more attention to college scores and rankings than they do with their own life. If you don't have a scoreboard, how can you keep score? If you don't have a coach to challenge you how can you improve? If you aren't training everyday, how can you win? A leader told me recently how lonely she felt… and I said, “you're approaching this the wrong way." Great leaders are part of great teams; full of great players, great coaches, great trainers, trusted venders, clients, partners and stakeholders. The more connected you are, the more successful you will be. Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all yo...

Secret Relationship Destruction - Understanding the Devastating Effect of Addiction on Marriage

By: Dwight Bain, LMHC The #AshleyMadisonHack, #JoshDuggar, #JaredSubway and #BillCosby scandals have stunned America the last few days. How could leaders who were so trusted and so well-liked have such dark shocking secrets? Why would someone who had it all- marriage, family, kids, money, career, fame, health- risk it all for fifteen minutes of physical pleasure? If they wanted another marriage partner they could have just legally divorced and gone on to date other people- right? Wouldn’t there have been an easier way to experience an intimate connection that wouldn’t have created so much scandal and shame for themselves and their families?             Reputation ruin comes after secret addicts are discovered by a marriage partner- or in the case of these respected leaders- outed by the media. It’s a major new story when these dark secrets are leaked to the press. But that isn’t new. Did you know there was actually an ancie...