15 Factors that Fuel Unfaithfulness
15 Factors that Fuel Unfaithfulness written by Dwight Bain, LMHC, NCC, & Certified Leadership Coach There are 15 key factors that can cause someone to ignore everything they believe in to break all the rules of a stable relationship. Here are the factors that drive people to cheat. As you read them, think of the people you have watched in a continual and desperate attempt to find somebody new to love, who only ended up creating massive stress and chaos for everyone else involved. 1. Selfishness: The clear #1 factor that fuels secret relationships is a commitment to please oneself over any commitment to their partner. Selfishness is a subtle slave master because it seems so natural to do what feels good inside, without consideration for how it will affect others. Once a person buys into the notion that their happiness is more important than that of their marriage partner, or children, parents, co-workers, boss, or shareholders, they begin a seductive slide into the da...